How To Be Yourself

While normally I write about the PandiBakes business, today I wanted to write about something I have explored before on this blog, but go deeper into it. Especially as a new year is slowly approaching, now is the best time to start to try and figure out who you are and how to live your best life. Don’t be afraid to be yourself, as that is what is going to get you far in life and business.

Don’t Worry What Others Think

Constantly obsessing about what others think about you is one of the worst things you can do. People always have something to say, but it’s up to you to stand your ground and know that you are the best person you can be. If I listened to what people thought of me, I would never be where I am now. Focus on yourself and those around you.

Treat Yourself How You Would Treat Your Best Friend

Would you ever tell your best friend that they aren’t good enough? Or that they should never take time for themselves? If the answer to those questions is yes, then you are probably not a very good friend! You would never say those things to someone you love, so remember to never say those things to yourself. Be as kind to yourself as you would be to others.


Deep down, we all know who we are, or at least who we want to be. Sometimes just listening to your gut feeling is what leads you in the direction that you should be in. Look inside yourself to find answers to those difficult questions, because only you can decide what you want. Intuition is whatever you want it to be, so use it as often as you can to get to where you want to be.


Negativity comes from everywhere, whether it be from yourself or others. Outer negativity is easier to escape, but inner negativity is much harder to avoid. However, it is not impossible. Negative self-talk is something everyone does, but don’t let it ruin whatever it is you are happy and excited about. Turn that negativity into love by twisting it around and celebrating your strengths.

Enjoy Life

Let’s not forget about the whole point of this. Life is for having fun and enjoying whatever it is that you do. When you are happy you are always yourself, so do the things that bring you joy and you won’t help but become your true self. Being yourself is so important and when you run a business this becomes truer than ever. Surround yourself with loved ones and enjoy the life given to you.

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Remember, being yourself is the best person you can be.